I get asked alot as to why I am have never been on any of the Wedding Reality TV Shows. So thought this was a good time to answer that question. Yesterday I declined which now makes my 5th offer to be on a Reality Show. First off, the first question they ask is, “Have you seen our show?” I answer no, usually. As the last thing I really want to watch is something wedding after a long day/week planning the fabulous weddings I produce for my incredible clients. (Give me Housewives of anywhere, Modern Family, Glee and All My Children please). Some of them have asked for me to make things happen so there is “drama”. Sorry, I am not going to ruin my clients wedding for the sake of their TV ratings. Also, I feel a wedding shouldn’t be disprupted with extra lighting for TV, Cameras on Booms and extra cameras, and producers telling me and the client how they want it done. To me a wedding should be a personal experience of a major life event for two famlies. Yes, I would get some exposure from it (but again, is it the way I want to be shown on TV is my first thought) but my priority are my clients, not me. One producer told me that I don’t make for Good TV. Hmm. 20/20 didnt think so.. The Early Show didnt think so.. or any of the local TV stations here in Chicago. When I have watched some of these (Platinum Weddings excluded, was offered this But my cleintele really don’t want what they spent on the wedding plastered on the TV, this is one that I do enjoy) my mouth drops, and I just think “how sad”. I cannot believe people go on TV like this let alone on their wedding day. Yet, alot of this can be entertaining to alot of people. 